This interest did not develop overnight, but the curiosity that led me down this path began about seven years ago. At the time, my wife and I were not in the best place in our marriage, and as one might expect, our sex life was also not in a good state. I took that opportunity to explore. I’ve always been a very sexual person with a strong sex drive, so the idea of discovering new ways to experience pleasure has always fascinated me.

One night, I was lying in bed. My wife was asleep next to me, but I couldn’t fall asleep. I was watching late-night television when an advertisement for an online adult store I had never heard of came on. So, what did I do? I grabbed my phone and looked it up. At that moment, I had no idea it would mark the beginning of my journey into prostate pleasures.

It all began with that website, which quickly sent me down a rabbit hole of articles on prostate pleasures. I discovered the P-spot, and in that moment, I knew I had made my decision that I wanted to feel the amazing eye-rolling, toe-curling orgasm prompted by stimulating the prostate.

It was a period of trial and error. I kept buying toy after toy in pursuit of that one goal. At times, I wondered if maybe I just wasn’t built to experience that feeling. But in the end, it was all part of the learning process. It was also the start of my deep fascination with cum (prostate milking, shooting ropes, etc.). Don’t misunderstand, it all felt great but I didn’t experience the mind-blowing P-spot orgasm.

Then I bought a toy that changed everything: the njoy Pure Wand. No, this isn’t an advertisement for this product but that particular device completely transformed the way I understood and unlocked my prostate’s hidden potential. I used the device in every position I could think of, but in the end, using it while on my back felt best.

And then it happened, my goal was finally achieved. I did what I set out to do. It was everything I read it would be. Mind-blowing. Toe curling. Eye rolling. Leg twitching. Amazing. The best part: it was a hands free ejaculation. I wasn’t stimulating my penis at all and the cum erupted out of me. It looked and felt glorious.

But here was the problem: I was alone in this journey and had no one to share it with. I also felt a bit ashamed. What would happen if my wife found out about my interest in prostate play? Would she think less of me?

Time passed. We are talking about years. I kept this little secret to myself. In the meantime, my wife and I repaired our relationship and our sex life returned in full force. We also became adventurous in the bedroom again.

Trust was rebuilt, and we began communicating more openly about our needs and desires when it came to our most intimate moments. She learned about my cum kinks and we explored that without any hesitations. Creampie cleanups, cum swaps and all. However, it would take more time before I could share my interest in prostate play with her.

One day we were talking about sex fetishes. It was a general conversation and not directly related to our sex life, but I used it as an opportunity to share my interest in prostate play. I gathered the courage and spoke up.

I told her about my journey and why I had never shared this very intimate detail of my life with her. She wasn’t happy about not knowing, though she understood. She just wanted me to be able to explore what I needed in the bedroom. She didn’t think any less of me and was more than happy to participate moving forward.

At first, she was apprehensive. She wasn’t used to taking on a more dominant role, and she had no prior experience in this area. Sure, we have done a lot of anal play but up until this point, it was me eating her ass out or me entering her asshole. The roles were now reversed. It took some time for her to get used to but fast forward to the present and now she has no problem strapping on that dildo and getting all up inside me. We have come to find out that it feels best when I lay on my back and she is stroking my cock at the same time.

Honestly, I am glad that I mustered the courage to open up to her about adding this little activity to our sex routine because my orgasms have never been better and my ejaculations have never been stronger.