It might take a little time to get comfortable with the idea of consuming your own [or someone else’s] semen. Keep in mind, it won’t happen instantly. But why is that? Before we dive into the answer, let’s first ask ourselves: Why do we want to eat [our own] cum?

1. Curiosity? You want to know what it feels like to swallow or take a load.
2. Maybe it makes you feel super slutty.
3. It does add a level of convenience. With proper cleaning, there is no mess! And no more tissues (or gross crusty towels)!
4. You enjoy the taste.
5. You enjoy the kink of feeling hot and/or submissive.
6. Or simply, it just turns you on.

The Intimacy and Excitement of CEI (Cum Eating Instructions)

I can’t provide the answer for you, but it’s something you’ll need to keep reminding yourself of as you move forward on this journey. But the general idea is to get that hot steamy load into your mouth before that doubt creeps in (and it happens quickly). When you do it frequently enough, it becomes no longer a problem.

Often referred to as Post-Nut Clarity or PNC, the term defines the moment a man’s horniness goes away as soon as he orgasms. A mental reset of sorts. Once a man orgasms and releases his fluids, the brain releases a ton of endorphins and neurotransmitters, including the “feel-good” dopamine. As a result, some men tend to get feelings of disgust with oneself or possibly guilt and regret with the act of intercourse and the very sight of semen becomes so unappealing, even though 30 seconds ago you just wanted to guzzle it all down. Time passes and the cycle begins all over again.’

How to Overcome This

Flying Solo

While it’s not impossible, I’ll admit that this is much easier when you have your partner’s cooperation.

1. Start with the basics and warm up to it. Start with the precum. As a man is pleasured, clear fluids leak out of the head of the penis. This is called precum. Touch it. Taste it. Smell it. Next move on to seeing the cum on yourself immediately after you climax. Touch it. Taste it. Smell it. Play with it. In time (maybe days or weeks), you will learn to normalize interacting with and ingesting it.
2. Sometimes it is as simple as finding the right position to be in. Oftentimes, the individual will lift their legs over their head, making sure that their erect penis is hovering over their face and mouth. It is easier to move into this position with the help of a wall. And when the time comes to climax, you do not have enough time to react and move away. Instead, you will be shooting that creamy nut into your mouth and enjoying what you have been craving for so long.
3. For many, it may be as simple as a quick slurp out of the hand immediately before that PNC kicks in. Don’t wait a single second! Don’t even wait until your ejaculation is completely finished! In a single swoop, unleash that load into your hand and scoop it straight into your mouth.
4. I envy those with the flexibility to perform autofellatio. That is, performing oral sex on yourself. I won’t get into the specifics or how to do this but if you can, this is for sure the best and easiest method to swallow your own cum.
5. Sometimes, it is easier with the help of pairing the creamy ejaculate with a consumable item. Ejaculate onto food or in a drink (such as in a coffee) or even cook with it and consume the now deliciously frosted item.
6. Or maybe, finish off in a condom (without harmful lubricants or spermicidal chemicals) or into a cup/container. Try to get yourself back into the mood. This may take minutes or a half hour but when that horniness does eventually come back, that seed will be waiting for you, and you can drink it straight out of the condom or container.
7. Hands down, the most effective way to experience what you wish to experience is to perform what is called the “ruined orgasm.” I will provide more details below.

With a Partner

Above all, you need your partner’s acknowledgment and active involvement to engage in these activities. Clear communication is essential.

1. Set expectations to ensure that all participants follow through with their commitments.
2. Enhance the dirty talk. Put it in overdrive if you must. “A dirty boy should always clean up his mess.” Or “Time to clean that pussy.”
3. If you are more into the bondage scene, there is the act of “punishment” (typically through “humiliation”). I won’t be covering this here as it is out of my realm of expertise but if you do decide to go down this path, please be safe about it.
4. Role play can always help. Maybe she just came home from a wild night with another lover, and she demands that you lick her clean.
5. Encouragement by any means goes a long way. Let him know how good the cleaning feels. Reassure him that it is something you both want. Remind him of the reasons you are doing it in the first place.
6. Apply “force.” Push his head down to his creamy mess. If you just finished a blowjob, plant a creamy kiss on his lips and start making out swirling that delicious sex fluid between your tongues. Or just sit on his face and tell him to eat.
7. Give him an ultimatum. He can ejaculate tonight or wait a few more days. The caveat being that if he were to ejaculate tonight, he would need to clean that ejaculate afterwards.
8. Warm up to it. Start with the precum. As a man is pleasured, clear fluids leak out of the head of the penis. This is called precum. Touch it. Taste it. Smell it. Next move on to seeing the cum in and on your partner immediately after you climax. Touch it. Taste it. Smell it. Play with it. In time (maybe days or weeks), you will learn to normalize interacting with and ingesting it.

Conclusion

By participating in cum eating activities with a partner, sex takes on a whole different quality. Considered taboo, the uninhibited activity opens the door for other sexual inclination and fantasies. The best part is that cleanup is no longer an issue.

For additional encouragement, you can always find cum eating support groups on the Internet, including the very popular r/eatingowncum on Reddit.